After 20 years of experience helping men find a drug free solution to their erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, Shari James has developed a new approach to men’s sexual health and performance: The Architecture of Pleasure. This foundational approach allows her to freely intuit and collaborate with clients to customize, create and build a template for their pleasure and performance.
Borrowing from Shari’s expertise as a registered nurse and practitioner of the five elements of Chinese Medicine, The Architecture of Pleasure blends the best of traditional Western medicine and Eastern healing practices. With her fluid knowledge of the Science of Tantra, she provides a grounded, accessible and multilayered approach.
As a client, this program is designed to work in concert with the care of your primary doctor or therapist, creating a team approach for your overall health. In these sessions, your entire state of being will be addressed: physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
Shari is also a skilled group facilitator, public speaker and the author of upcoming book “Him” A Modern Man’s Guide to Sex, Health and Women. She enjoys infusing her wit and comedy background into her work when it’s appropriate, and looks forward to bringing a smile to your face with her humor as you progress.
“The penis is the overall barometer of a man’s health.”
In my 20+ years of working with men, I have found this be true not only for the physical side of health, but also mental, emotional and spiritual health. With my comprehensive and architectural approach, we’ll form the building blocks to improve every aspect of your being.
We will work together to address your physical health related issues and lifestyle choices in order to strengthen the body and create an optimal vehicle to receive pleasure and achieve peak sexual performance.
As we build a strong foundation, we’ll redesign your mental circuitry. Together, we’ll work on new techniques for gaining confidence and clean out old, limiting beliefs to change the way you see yourself.
Emotions become energy in motion, releasing blockages from the past and heightening your ability to feel pleasure while giving freely from the heart.
Once you’re aligned physically, mentally and emotionally, your spirit will shine from the inside-out, the embodiment of confidence, consciousness and power. It’s time to transform your body into a temple.
1) INCREASE FIRMNESS:
Find your strength with absolutely no herbs or pharmaceuticals. Become firmer and have staying power, all while intensifying your orgasms. And with some simple lifestyle choices I will teach you, you will train your body to support that firmness as you evolve.
2) CONFIDENCE, CONTROL AND CONNECTED:
More than control over your own body’s responses, your orgasms will be more deep, expansive and intense. You will gain all the tools necessary to be confident, in control and connected during the sexual act. Perfect for everything from overcoming performance anxiety to rediscovering your youthful energy.
3) MASTER PRESENCE AND PERFORMANCE
I will help you search yourself and find the three qualities key to attracting women or becoming more attractive to your current partner. You will learn how to create sexual attraction when it seems stagnant. You’ll perfect the techniques to get a woman in the mood, and learn to please a woman while possessing a strong sexual presence.
4) SEXUAL HEALTH 101
Overcome porn desensitization. Defend against ED, prostate cancer and even heart problems. With simple lifestyle changes we’ll enhance your performance while giving your orgasms power.
5) POST PROSTRATE CANCER CARE
Reevaluate, revitalize and recreate your ability to experience pleasure while preventing further health problems. With my emotional, spiritual and physical support after your procedure, you will learn techniques to get hard without a prescription, or have powerful full body internal orgasms if getting hard is not possible.
All packages are customized specifically for your needs and desired results.
Sessions are professional and confidential.
Your significant other can look forward to the results and benefits of our sessions, and rest assured that our time together remains strictly professional with a no-touch policy.
If you are single, our sessions together can help bring the confidence you need to approach a woman, increase your sexual presence to get out of that friendzone, and help you find all the tools within yourself that are necessary to keep a long, healthy relationship.
One-on-one coaching with me. Coaching can be done over the phone, Skype or in my Los Angeles office.
Powerful (and pleasurable) homework assignments. After each of our calls I will give you homework, and you’ll report back to me. Staying accountable and keeping your momentum are the biggest keys to transformation.
Personalization Everything we build together is customized and tailored to fit you and your desired results.
I am only 44 and I was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes 4 years ago. I also have severe neuropathy in my feet and erectile dysfunction. Viagra, Cialis and injections did not work. My doctor referred me to Shari and after one intensive I was able to get fully hard. I also had a had a full body orgasm with out ejaculating. It was truly an amazing experience. Dean Age 44
There is a saying, “It’s not boasting if you can back it up.” Shari James not only backs it up but delivers more than is promised. Shari possesses that rare combination of intelligence, insight and intuition that will forever change your life, positively and profoundly. Receiving her compassion and experiencing her innate sensitivity becomes a heart opening experience.
J.D. Age 62
Shari James kept me off Viagra after having radiation treatments for prostate cancer and I am still functioning fine 8 years later. Since post treatment counseling is virtually non-existent, Shari provides a service that is a must for any prostate cancer survivor. Whether the cancer was remediated by surgery, chemotherapy or any type of radiation; the ability to experience new heights of pleasure and function sexually without the aid of ED drugs is the final and most important phase of rehabilitation. Thomas Age 55
I reached out to you out of a sense of frustration and maybe a little despair, not feeling anything but numb. Guess the grind/stress and my ex had gotten to me. SEX had been something I remembered, and honestly…I didn’t really look forward to it all that much. Just more let downs, disappointments, and stress and frustrations. It was so good to talk to a woman who could “get me” and understood me without shaming and blaming me or putting me down cause I had needs. You knew… You understood, and that made all the difference. A positive role model for women! First one in a LONG TIME. I wish more women were like you.
I never believed that just talking with someone, and doing “breathing exercises”, changing my daily routines would ever have an effect. Boy, was I wrong. After 2 sessions I started to think about sex (and women) differently, as something I could look forward to. I really appreciated how you spoke to me, no new age wishy-washy woo-who stuff, straight talk and to the point. What I’ve noticed most after several sessions with you, is I’m looking forward instead of behind. I know I have stuff, but it really helps to have a woman, a good women listen and talk about this stuff. Jonathan Age 38
When I started working with Shari, I simply wanted help with my frustrating and chronic ED. What actually happened blew my mind. I am an engineer, not a tantric master, but I experienced my first “internal orgasm” which I didn’t even know was possible. My self-confidence in the bedroom went from a 3 to a 10, and the few simple lifestyle changes I made thanks to Shari not just helped resolve ED but also resulted in significantly improved performance in my career. I literally feel like a new man everywhere in my life. Paul Age 46
I wish I knew about Shari when I was in my 20’s. Seriously, every guy needs to know this stuff! Premature Ejaculation…GONE! Kai Age 34
Thank you so much for all your help in the sessions we had together. You had a huge impact on me. I had so many fears about intimacy, the need to be loved and accepted for who I am and my ability to please women. You made me realize my fears were overblown and generated by my own negative and anxiety driven thought system. You were very caring, knowledgeable, and professional. And you made it very easy going and fun, which helped me absorb all the information. The tools you taught me will forever help me with my interactions with women. Thanks and all the best. David Age 35
Western medicine is often missing a holistic, educational and spiritual aspect to its caregiving. I hope to offer that for your clients in order to build a bridge to eastern medical practices while you offer traditional care.
I am seeking members of the medical community who I can partner with in order to create a global referral network of progressive medical professionals in the areas of Longevity Medicine, Urology, Primary Health, Cardiac Care, Psychotherapy and Psychology.
Often, my clients need a traditional referral for:
• Testing • Procedures • Prescriptions • Acute medical conditions • Your overall authority • Problems beyond my capability
Your clients could be referred to me for:
• A drug free alternative for PE and ED • Preventative health counseling. • Education and techniques to naturally reduce prostate inflammation. • Impact for rare cases such as elevated prolactin levels in men. • Post-prostrate surgery care.
“I support Shari James approach to the complete well being of the patient encompassing mind, body and spirit. As human beings we are endowed with the power of intimacy which is expressed in our sexual relations with others that plays a major role in physical, mental and self actualization.” Fouad Ghaly M.D.
If you have any questions about my work or credentials please feel free to contact me on my contacts page.
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