After 20 years of experience helping men find a drug free solution to their erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, Shari James has developed a new approach to men’s sexual health and performance: The Architecture of Pleasure. This foundational approach allows her to freely intuit and collaborate with clients to customize, create and build a template for their pleasure and performance.
Borrowing from Shari’s expertise as a registered nurse and practitioner of the five elements of Chinese Medicine, The Architecture of Pleasure blends the best of traditional Western medicine and Eastern healing practices. With her fluid knowledge of the Science of Tantra, she provides a grounded, accessible and multilayered approach.
As a client, this program is designed to work in concert with the care of your primary doctor or therapist, creating a team approach for your overall health. In these sessions, your entire state of being will be addressed: physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
Shari is also a skilled group facilitator, public speaker and the author of upcoming book “Him” A Modern Man’s Guide to Sex, Health and Women. She enjoys infusing her wit and comedy background into her work when it’s appropriate, and looks forward to bringing a smile to your face with her humor as you progress.
“The penis is the overall barometer of a man’s health.”
In my 20+ years of working with men, I have found this be true not only for the physical side of health, but also mental, emotional and spiritual health. With my comprehensive and architectural approach, we’ll form the building blocks to improve every aspect of your being.
We will work together to address your physical health related issues and lifestyle choices in order to strengthen the body and create an optimal vehicle to receive pleasure and achieve peak sexual performance.
As we build a strong foundation, we’ll redesign your mental circuitry. Together, we’ll work on new techniques for gaining confidence and clean out old, limiting beliefs to change the way you see yourself.
Emotions become energy in motion, releasing blockages from the past and heightening your ability to feel pleasure while giving freely from the heart.
Once you’re aligned physically, mentally and emotionally, your spirit will shine from the inside-out, the embodiment of confidence, consciousness and power. It’s time to transform your body into a temple.
1) INCREASE FIRMNESS:
Find your strength with absolutely no herbs or pharmaceuticals. Become firmer and have staying power, all while intensifying your orgasms. And with some simple lifestyle choices I will teach you, you will train your body to support that firmness as you evolve.
2) CONFIDENCE, CONTROL AND CONNECTED:
More than control over your own body’s responses, your orgasms will be more deep, expansive and intense. You will gain all the tools necessary to be confident, in control and connected during the sexual act. Perfect for everything from overcoming performance anxiety to rediscovering your youthful energy.
3) MASTER PRESENCE AND PERFORMANCE
I will help you search yourself and find the three qualities key to attracting women or becoming more attractive to your current partner. You will learn how to create sexual attraction when it seems stagnant. You’ll perfect the techniques to get a woman in the mood, and learn to please a woman while possessing a strong sexual presence.
4) SEXUAL HEALTH 101
Overcome porn desensitization. Defend against ED, prostate cancer and even heart problems. With simple lifestyle changes we’ll enhance your performance while giving your orgasms power.
5) POST PROSTRATE CANCER CARE
Reevaluate, revitalize and recreate your ability to experience pleasure while preventing further health problems. With my emotional, spiritual and physical support after your procedure, you will learn techniques to get hard without a prescription, or have powerful full body internal orgasms if getting hard is not possible.
All packages are customized specifically for your needs and desired results.
Sessions are professional and confidential.
Your significant other can look forward to the results and benefits of our sessions, and rest assured that our time together remains strictly professional with a no-touch policy.
If you are single, our sessions together can help bring the confidence you need to approach a woman, increase your sexual presence to get out of that friendzone, and help you find all the tools within yourself that are necessary to keep a long, healthy relationship.
One-on-one coaching with me.
Coaching is done worldwide over the Phone, Video Conference or in person at my Los Angeles office.
Powerful (and pleasurable) homework assignments. After each of our calls I will give you homework, and you’ll report back to me. Staying accountable and keeping your momentum are the biggest keys to transformation.
Personalization Everything we build together is customized and tailored to fit you and your desired results.
Due to the sensitive and discreet nature of this work, video testimonials are available upon request. I currently have video testimonials for curing Erectile Dysfunction with clients who have Porn Addiction, Parkinsons, Diabetes & Cerebral Palsy.
Western medicine is often missing a holistic, educational and spiritual aspect to its caregiving. I hope to offer that for your clients in order to build a bridge to eastern medical practices while you offer traditional care.
I am seeking members of the medical community who I can partner with in order to create a global referral network of progressive medical professionals in the areas of Longevity Medicine, Urology, Primary Health, Cardiac Care, Psychotherapy and Psychology.
Often, my clients need a traditional referral for:
• Testing • Procedures • Prescriptions • Acute medical conditions • Your overall authority • Problems beyond my capability
Your clients could be referred to me for:
• A drug free alternative for PE and ED • Preventative health counseling. • Education and techniques to naturally reduce prostate inflammation. • Impact for rare cases such as elevated prolactin levels in men. • Post-prostrate surgery care.
“I support Shari James approach to the complete well being of the patient encompassing mind, body and spirit. As human beings we are endowed with the power of intimacy which is expressed in our sexual relations with others that plays a major role in physical, mental and self actualization.” Fouad Ghaly M.D.
If you have any questions about my work or credentials please feel free to contact me on my contacts page.
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